Necessary Fights!

Everyone has had their share of fights in their life. Be it with one's girlfriend, one's friend, one's family member or any other concerned person, we always fight with someone upon being cheated, hurt and all such kinds of reasons. The reasons may vary from cheap to very silly ones, but everyone reacts to situations like these in their own manner. Some may simply pass it on with time, with a mum face, others act, or rather overact, and some may even end up in a fist fight. It all depends with whom we fight and how bad the reason it. But I am gonna talk about those kinda fights which we may run into with our loved ones, for a reason range of silly to misunderstandings (obvious as fights relating cheating and sore stuff like that never end up in a good manner). All in all....fights which have a 99.9% probability of ending in warm vibes! :) :P

So, remember a time you ended up having a duel with a friend and simply promising each other not to show their faces, while swearing at them? Or the time you had a lovely argument with your love and simply did not contact him/her for the next few days, while anxiously waiting for the either one to respond? Sounds quite common right? Well, these things are indeed too common to cautiously avoid. And you know what? They shouldn't be avoided as well!! Confused? Well, let me tell you why.

Ever thought about the aftermath of a fight? How would you describe it? Lame? Awkward? Or something like this? I would say that that moment is one of the best moments in your friendship. Just consider a case when you haven't been talking to one of your good friends for a really long time. It doesn't matter who initiates the talk first, but while you are sorting things out, your emotions come face to face. These are the moments when you can get to know your friend more closer than any other opportunity. And now comes the best part - the final sorry! When things are sorted, and the next time you guys meet or talk, just try to notice the emotions around. Within yourself, you would feel a surge of energy simply to meet and talk to your loved friend, and same's the case on the other side of the bank. You talk like never before, share instances you can come up with at that moment - all in all, you guys share a rocking laughter! Or say another situation when you have hurt someone or you get hurt. If the guilty person apologizes after realizing her mistake, I agree that there's a chance that you might be so pissed off that you wouldn't even bother to care! But what about the moment that comes a few ticks of the clock later? Don't you miss your friend and his antics? Those very same antics which might have been the cause of the fight? And then comes a feeling from within to completely forget the matter, and to resume the relation with a new vibe and beat! Don't you enjoy that moment either? Or don't you at least end the call with a smile on your face?

Fights have a definition as to the inevitable sources of anxious feelings within people which give rise to a new platform for a better bonding after a period of time - at least this is the conception to me. I have had a hell lotta fights with my friends and those reading this article will remember certain sore one's after reading this line, but hey...the friendship does survive and we people grow to be able to laugh at those tensing moments! This is the way we all live on. I have also met many people in my life who simply run away from sorting a fight simply because they feel the need of peace. That's their way of responding, but the common part in every case is that we do forget those moments, overcome by our love and bond strength of the friendship and move on! This is what is to be cherished. I am not saying that next time you feel the urge to strengthen you relation, simply walk up to the person and start a fight! But hey, if you experience one, remember to control your anger and just keep in mind that sunshine's a stone's throw away!

The entire reason for writing all these lines is that I have had a big fight with one of my sweet buddies! I miss her like hell, but still....I am simply waiting for the sun to rise again! I know it'll happen, but am just waiting. I don't know whether she'll ever look at this post or not, the main reason being that she's not into this blogging and stuff, but this is just a way to express myself that "Dear, I still do care, and I miss you." So people, just try not to fight ugly! But if you fight, do remember to enjoy the aftermath! ;)