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Saturday, June 26, 2010

Need A Hug?

Have you ever had that feeling of getting frenzy and confused while selecting a lovely gift for an equally lovely friend? Have you ever had that feeling of getting literally "lost" in a gift shop, unable to decide whether to focus on budget or the type of gift? All in all, are you a loser in selecting gifts? If yes, I think you and I are on the same platform buddy!! :)

In today's world of versatile malls, a gift shop is what I feel a place to get lost into. You can just gaze on numerous items, that may or may not fit your criteria of a gift, but they allure you simply because it has been promoted quite efficiently. And the worse part, when it comes to beautiful ladies, you really have to think of the pros-&-cons of the entire gifting process. Okay, this is where I must admit that I do have a lot of female friends to depend on and I am writing this because every-time I feel like rewarding them for something special in their lives, I get into a REAL dilemma! But hey, I personally believe that a gift with a personal touch is something that goes easy on the pocket (:D), touches and pierces the heart more effectively, and the best part : you do not have to worry about the pros-cons at all! Because the gift I am talking about here is a TIGHT HUG!

You ever realize that if somebody comes and compliments you with a tight hug, you actually feel on top of the world subconsciously? I mean of course if its a hug from an opposite sex human, it would feel nice :D ;), but hey, just feel the emotion! From who-ever it is coming from. This kind of a gesture is a sole way to commute a thousand sentences into an act of seconds, to depict the affection in one's heart in its purest form and most importantly, it's a gift which can be returned without offending the rewarder!!!

Just imagine! You are feeling low and sitting alone. Along comes a friend and after seeing your condition, gives you tight hug and comforts you by holding you wrapped in his arms. Can you imagine the strength this sole act of care can give you? Or say another situation where you come to know of a happening that shoots up your level of elation so high, that you see your good friend coming, and even before saying anything, you hug her tightly! Seeing the emotion in you, don't you think she too will be equally happy? Of course after you tell her the reason, she'll return the hug back, and then? Just try to visualize the laughs that will be shared? Or say another scenario when you visit an old friend after a hell lot of time and you people hug each other! So soothing right?

All I am saying is that hugging is the purest act of gesture where you can convey the fact that "Yes you fool! I am worried and I do care for you!". Its just a non-verbal mode of expression. Did you know that 70% of all human interactions occur by visual emotional expressions and acts? This is just one of them! I am not saying that buying gifts, spending some money is a crime! But only this that do not ogle over materialistic articles so much that these emotional gestures loose their fragrance! Just remember, things, articles and stuff fade away with time! Both in their appeal and from our memories, but simple acts like these remain for a lifetime! I think you will agree with me right? So just after reading thing blog, I would say the best thing you can do is to go meet our dearest friend, call him/her up or simply text them (of course, you have the unlimited SMS promo rt?) simply to send them a virtual/real hug saying you care! Just see what happens next! :D :)

1 comment:

  1. well somik da, its even one of d most beautiful things which happens after a fight with a very near one....i swear more than the words to bridge that gap which has cropped up...a hug unites u again...its like feeling ol the emotions in his heartbeat....
    p.s: i am writin this coz i had it just a couple of days back...n i cherish it...coz dat hug erased ol d hard n hurt feelings whatsoever

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